My boyfriend and I been living together for 2 years and I work from home I work in graphic design about 10 to 12 hrs a day to meet my deadlines he works outside if the house and thinks I should be cleaning and when he gets home make him food he told me I'm lazy and not being a good gf. How do I get him to understand that I have no time to baby him and cook and clean for him. I have very good paying job that I can't lose I worked hard to get here. He just doesn't get that I do stuff all day he thinks I'm just playing on the computer. I tell him show him but he just thinks it's easy and I need to care for him better. Help