changes in sex after having a baby?

was sex different (specifically your partners attitude about it) after having a baby? i’m 9 weeks pp and my s/o hasn’t given me head once. he used to go down on me every single time we had sex. i mean literally every time. we still do have sex regularly and we both enjoy it, but not once has he given me head. it’s just kind of strange to me....idk if he’s doing it consciously or not but if it lasts much longer i’ll mention it....i did take a little longer than 6 weeks to completely heal and stop bleeding. and i personally feel like i smell since giving birth. it’s getting better but it grosses me out (even though i keep clean, so it’s not terrible) so i’m wondering if that’s why he hasn’t. still fingers me and everything... anyways, i’m not too worried. i’m giving it time. anyone else care to share?