So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a month now. When we first started dating, my boyfriend didn’t put any effort in, didn’t try to see me, and honestly I was pretty miserable. Whenever I confronted him about it, he blamed me for being too emotional.

A few weeks ago, when I was tired of him only being able to call once a week even though we were a thousand miles apart, I tried to break up with him. I knew I could do better, and I deserved someone who treated me well and actually wanted to see me. However, my boyfriend called me back almost crying and said he’s so stupid for not treating me well and bc he had a bunch of crazy exes he doubted that he could be in an actual normal relationship and he was scared of getting hurt so he didn’t put much effort in. Then he promised to try much harder etc etc. His apology made me give him another chance, and now he calls me a lot and even sends me gifts in the mail. However, I’m worried that in a month when we are reunited, things aren’t going to change and he will keep blowing me off for friends (especially female friends) and not put much effort into our dates.

Is it okay for me to worry so much? Should I be worried? Should I not have given him another chance? Or should I just wait and see what happens?