Disrespectful?

I know this is an app with users from all over the world. I live in the U.S. and it is considered very disrespectful to have the American flag ever touch the ground. My SO is in the military, and is quite the patriot, so our household is quite passionate about this.

The 4th or July is coming up, which sparks patriotism (though most of it is likely superficial). I saw this post on Facebook by this local photographer, and felt taken aback immediately. In the photos she is using to advertise, the flag appears to be touching the ground. I opened the comments, where she defended the photos, saying that someone was always holding the flag to ensure it did not touch the ground, and it was essentially, “photoshop magic”. I commented and asked why she would even want it to appear as if the flag were touching the ground, as that still feels disrespectful. She deleted my comment, of course. 🙄

I am not 100% convinced she has someone holding the flag, but even if she does, someone looking at the photos would not initially know that, and could be offended. A lot of people take great pride in the flag, and would find this to be very disrespectful.

I know other countries don’t share the same ideas, and I am okay with that. I just want to hear thoughts on this. Especially from those in the U.S.

**Update: I can’t address all the comments individually, so here are a couple of points.

1. This was meant to be a civil discussion. You disagree? Perfect. Tell me why. Use your “I” statements. “I disagree because I believe this...” Perfectly respectful way to respond. Instead, “you” statements are being used to pass judgement on me or give your opinion about me. You do not know me, and I want opinions on the topic, not myself, please.

2. I care about other, and yes, “more important” things. I didn’t post this and say, “by the way, this is what I am most passionate about and I don’t care about anything else.” If you want my opinion on something else, you are welcome to message me to discuss it. I was bothered by this and just wanted a discussion.

3. Yes, the flag shouldn’t be worn. But my interpretation of this is the same as the American Legion, if it is not made from an actual flag, then fine. I realize some will disagree, that is okay. A baby in a flag print outfit doesn’t bother me. It’s tasteful. But a bikini or something does seem distasteful, but I personally don’t feel it violates the code. That is simply my opinion. I do not wear flag prints, however.

4. I actually don’t have a lot of time. I don’t dedicate a ton of time to this. I posted this and have responded while breastfeeding my daughter. This is not something I marinate in.

5. I am patriotic, not a nationalist. I love my country, but I do not think I am better than anyone due to being American. I respect other countries and cultures.

6. To me, this isn’t political. This flag represents our country, and has forever! It’s a symbol of our country. You can love your country and not love who runs it or what they do. Administrations are temporary.

7. I am sad to hear so many members of the armed forces call this “just a piece of fabric”, but if that is how you feel and you still want to risk your life for our country, more power to you and thank you for your service.

Keep in mind, you know nothing about me. Please stop assuming. Let’s discuss the topic, not me and why I am a horrendous individual in your eyes.