hi everybody. just wondering if there are any mums out there who had their 2nd after 40 years of age. I met my husband late and we had our first at age 39. it was a blessing but I admit I'm tired most days and looking after a toddler is more tiring than a newborn in some ways. I really would have wanted 2 to give my first a brother or sister but my husband and myself are really worried we won't be able to cope. any advice from someone who's been in a similar situation? thanks !! 😊