Boyfriend vs family...vs me?

This is a touchy subject but I think my boyfriend and I just made up after a super awkward day at school. Last night he came to my house and I didn't know he was there. I was talking to my parents and they kept saying how I need to do what's best for me and that he holds me back. They called him a few names and just said that I need to worry about myself and my life. HE WAS OUTSIDE WHEN IT HAPPENED LISTENING!!!! I didn't say a word and he was mad at me for not sticking up for him so he threatened to leave me and was acting cold all day long. I know that his parents constantly talk about me too but it's that I'm not good enough for him or that I weigh too much and it's a problem but guys....I only weigh 110. I would have been mad too but never threaten to leave!!!! I love him madly and I know he does too. Just venting. I guess! Anyone have similar issues?