I can’t tell if it’s just a developmental thing, or if something else is going on. My 20 month old daughter does weird things. Like in the bath, she won’t let me use this pitcher. She has to fill it up and set it on the left side of the tub, and she gets mad if I use it or dump it out. She’s also obsessed with pacifiers. Like has to have one in her mouth, or be holding one. She won’t sleep at night with out at least two pacifiers in her crib. I know toddlers can be kind of possessive and particular, and she doesn’t really display other weird behaviors (my mom worked in autism for 10 years, and would be the first person to tell me if she thought she was autistic or something). Does anyone else’s kid do quirky odd ball things like this?