Well his sorta his ex best friend that he’s been.. open to starting over with. They have their own problems because back in high school my SO used to party hard and experiment with drugs and go to raves and do whatever. Well the thing is they got older and my so grew out of it. Eventually those days end and real life happens. Not for his best friend-so they grew apart.

He comes around again and the dude is just reckless. He says dumb crap that didn’t sit well with me. That’s stuff I can get over you know? But then there’s this. He had a girlfriend that I thought was extremely beautiful. I really liked this girl and liked seeing her. She came off really down the earth and genuine. Anyways so we were at their house and the guys leave to go get a drink. So I’m alone with her.

As soon as we were alone she basically falls into my lap sobbing, like uncontrollably sobbing and I like her as a friend but I’m not like best friends with her where we could just sob into each others laps so when she calms down I’m like girl.. what is wrong! She tells me she found his account on Reddit and found out that he was cheating, not only that he was comparing the girls sexually and asking reddit which on he should choose based on sexual things and who was better at what. This girl saw the first person that seemed a little trustworthy and broke down to me. Completely freaking heart broken and humiliated. This is when I totally lost ALL respect for him. I told her to break up with him and find someone better because she deserved better and she did. I was so angry I was like “THROW HIM IN THE PITS!” I think she just needed outside input. I don’t think she had any other girlfriends.

He has a new girlfriend now and according to my SO has really straightened up but anytime I’m around him all I think about is how I don’t respect him at all. I have bitterness towards him for his ex girlfriend and I just look at him like 😗 I don’t know if I can begin to like you or not

I really think that I’m gonna have to see it. I’m gonna have to see what he’s like now which means spending more time around him. I don’t plan on like watching his new relationship and I never even meant to with his old one. she cried to me and I gave her advice. It’s just that he hurt someone so badly and even barely knowing me, this girl cried to me heart broken and it made me feel a certain way about him.