My husband and I have been going to the same church for roughly 3 years and I love the people there but lately they have changed their Sunday service into more of a classroom type setting where they want us to get comp books and do devotionals and answer questions on a daily basis.. I don't like doing that so I just havent but now because our church is struggling a little they want us to anonymously write down what our 10% tithes should be.. I feel completely offended and like they have have no right to ask that.. I personally believe we need to find another church but it's so hard for me since I really enjoy all the people there.. would you guys feel the same about them asking about your tithes what would you all do.