Married couple does a 3sum?!

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Any married couples out there actually done a 3sum? My hubby and I have been talking about it lately and as interesting as it sounds, I don't think I could handle seeing him with another woman sexually. I think I'd become jealous and wonder if he'll hook up with her again behind my back,but that's just me.

How did you two agree to the arrangement? What tips would you give to someone who's unsure of the whole thing? How did you feel afterwards? Anything helps! Thanks in advance!

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Yea I'm just going to be blunt and say NO. If your with me then your ONLY WITH ME, no one else. I've never understood the whole open relationship thing and having 3sums with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Sure it must be fun but I look at a relationship or marriage as two not three or four or how ever many. I don't agree with this but I'm happy for those that can do it!

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If you are unsure don't do it! If you are jealous just don't! We thought about it as well and I just couldn't imagine him with another woman! I am to jealous!

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no way, I'm not, never have, never would, never would even consider sharing and I know he feels the same!

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Hell No I would freak out and cry 😡😭

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I had quite a few with my ex husband, I'm bi so it was best of both worlds for me. BUT if you have any reservations I would seriously suggest not doing it. Or give yourself more time to think it through. It's not for everyone and could cause some serious issues so make sure it's what you want to do. 
Our only rule was no kissing. That is too intimate for a 3some. 🍀

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Don't do it. I did it and I am emotionally scared for life. Just the fact of knowing my boyfriend had sex with my best friend with my consent makes me depressed(I know I'm stupid). My best friend is still my best friend and I love her even more because she did it for me...not my boyfriend. And as for me and my boyfriend were still going strong with our baby on the way. He says one day we can do it again...but no with our child in the picture never again....please if you feel you can emotionally do it more power to you but you don't want the images and feelings stuck in your head forever. I pray my memory of it fades away.

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I wouldn't do it. You really have to listen to yourself here and trust your instincts. From what I can see, sounds like your gut says don't do it. He will probably tease you, not realizing how it makes you feel, just laugh it off and take notice he is still with you. Maybe tease him back and say he's lucky he got you with that mug, or somthing silly like that to lighten up the situation. Just try not to make it a big deal. If he makes it a big deal and gets mad, then he is being a royal jerk. It's your life and ultimately your decision but this is my advice.

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I wasn't married, but it was an ex but he tried to pressure me into it and I was so emotionally done with it all there was two times he pushed me to far and we were a block away from it before I started to break down. I kept telling him no and that I didn't want to but it didn't matter to him. He ruined the relationship because he didn't value what I wanted, I would never do it and I never wanted to but it's because i don't share and I'm certainly was not going to be passed around from guy to guy at my boyfriends expense

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Did it but with a SO( not married)  it was ok..but someone ends up left out. Feelings get hurt. Insecurities creep in. Disaster waiting to happen

Married couple does a 3sum?!

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