So I'm kinda weird when it comes to my woman parts and what I mean by this is ok I'm married and been married since 2009 and I have 6 kids 5 by my husband and I love sex most of the time but some days I dont like being bothering and we go 2 and 3 days sometimes when im not in the mood and my hole close up and when we have sex again I feel like a virgin all of again am I the only person going through this I read that it's some kind of health condition like if he fingers me and pulls his hand out his finger is soaking and wet but when he sticks it in I'm moving all around on the bed because it hurts going in