Feeling alone and isolated

I want to pull my hair out these days when it comes to the inlaws! I love them so much, but lately is feels that everything they do, is to prove that I'm not blood related. Then when I send them updates regarding my pregnancy, my brother in law started swearing and saying that comparing a baby to food is bullshit and wrong! I wanted to throw my phone at the wall just for that stupid comment!
Now it's hubbies time! I have no say whatsoever about the town that we are moving to next year, none! I just feel isolated and alone at this stage. It is impossible to please everyone around me, and my opinions are ignored.