FWB Help pls

So okay i know

I know, i know

What did I fucking expect getting mixed up in this shit

What did I think would happen?

I KNOWWWW

Now that I've told myself off before all the happy couples have a go, here's the thing

When this all started with me and this guy (like 2 years ago) it was just sex

He was just home from living in another country, I was just out of a very long term and very toxic relationship, neither of us were looking for anything serious, just sex. That was fine. We aren't sleeping with other people just each other but it's just sex. Fine fine fine.

Uuuup until it suddenly just wasn't any more idk what happened but "just sex" wasn't cutting it (for me anyway, shocking i know lol someone caught all the feels imean who could have possibly forseen this?)

So I told him we should stop seeing each other knowing that he didn't catch any feels so of course we didn't stop and are technically kinda still.... Knocking boots.

Except now

Without any actual discussions about or indeed changes to our "arrangement" they now include arguments 🙃

So thats fun and of course he will pull away, ill pull away, tell him he should have left me alone the first time I fucking told him to, blah blah blah... And he hits me with

"was it ever anything more"??

WHAT?

No seriously, fuckinggg WHAT?

More than what?

How could it possibly have been when he was the one who wasn't a bit shy saying that that wasn't what he wanted?

If any guys are reading this, why do yous do this? What is the point?

Like, I have a feeling that this is just him trying to mess with my head and hes ripping the piss now because I was a dumbass and admitted feelings but... Like... Do they even go there if theres not something they haven't said...?

Imean what now?

Im not even sure that if I did want a relationship that it would even be with him, when hes being nice he is the sweetest guy in the whole world but unfortunately he chooses to be a dick most of the time...

Seriously

What in the actual fuck am I even doing?

1 sentence has just thrown everything up in the air and now im confused

Someone tell me, am I right here and hes just trying to mess with me? Or what?

Would he even say that if he didn't want it to be "something more"?

Sorry about the length of this but I need to vent (also need to stop with the decision making lol CLEARLY im not capable of doing it right) 🙃