Is he right? 😔

So whenever it’s bed time for my SO sometimes I have things in my mind that I need to tell him about how I feel or when we argue or something that we were talking about I ask him again bc he didn’t make it clear whatever.... he gets mad bc “I don’t let him sleep” and starts being rude telling me to shut up and being rude and gets mad... does he have the reason to get mad or he shouldn’t act that way?

Btw I stress out very easily and I need to have things clear if not I’ll be thinking about it all day. And few more like he doesn’t like to talk about the problems or doesn’t like me to delete him anything