The “am I bigger” question

Last night he asked it. 2 1/2 years and a child on the way he finally asks, “am I bigger then the other guys you’ve been with?” Now I’ve only been with 5 guys. Dated a lot but only slept with 5. I didn’t want to answer so by me not answering of course he knew he was not the biggest. But he also doesn’t understand the biggest I’ve ever had hurt and made me dread sex, also can’t tell him that since it’ll just make him question more of it. So he got in his feelings of course but later said sorry and that he shouldn’t have asked it. Now this morning at 4am when his alarm went off we laid in bed for 30 minutes while he said he had bad dreams that I’m gonna leave and how I’ll find someone better. Bitch no I’m not. I have chosen you, no refunds. How do you make a main feel better when he hit his own ego like this? What do you say?

I feel awful because when we first got together he was so insecure about his penis and sex because the previous girl broke up with him during sex, he stayed single for 3 years after that cause he was traumatized. Now he thinks he isn’t good enough when I built this mans ego up so high because he is great at sex and he does make me happy, just sex is difficult right now because of my baby bump and semi pain of it but I still give damn good blow jobs every day and anytime he asks for.