Restraining order
So back story my daughters father informed me he was using drugs and gave drugs to a minor. We have a court order where he is able to see her every other weekend. However upon this admission he and I agreed he would take some time to get himself together. Last week he started loosing it. Basically acting like I took away his rights. He started calling me multiple times a day, making subtle threats. Figured out which apartment was mine. Tried to pick our daughter up from school. Has called my work. I understand he wants to see his daughter, and I told him originally before that stuff happened that my husband and I would meet him at chukie cheese for him to be able to see her. Then he did that and I honestly am terrified of him. So today I was granted an emergency restraining order, all his rights are temporarily suspended. While I was doing this he called and apologized. This is kind of his cycle. He gets really mean, tries to justify himself, blames me calls me names, then says sorry. He did this when we were together. But honestly part of me felt bad. Am I doing the right thing? He says he has been sober for 2 weeks... is that good enough? He originally agreed on rehab but he changed his mind and is going to sobriety meetings. I’m confused and honestly kind of tense. I don’t want to hurt my daughter.
Edit no I don’t think 2 weeks in enough I think he needs long term help before getting to see her unsupervised. But I just am emotional and anxious and I want to do the right thing by my daughter
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