Loving your baby even though you had an abortion

I don’t know if it sounds stupid but does anyone feel like they loved their baby, even though they had an abortion? I know it was the right decision for me, and for my potential child, but I still felt like I loved that baby. I don’t regret it, but when I see a child who would’ve been around the same age as mine, my mind does start to wonder what could’ve been.

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Be

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I get what you mean. I know it was the right choice, but I cried myself to sleep for weeks after and all I wanted was my baby. Being in that situation, there wasn’t a “perfect” outcome.

Ni

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I felt and still feel that way after it being a year since my abortion, i have ultrasound pictures and just look at it once in a while

Ja

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i still feel that way and i will continue to feel that way. i know i made the decision to have an abortion but i was young. i “talk” to him/her every once in a while and say that i miss/ love and how sad i am. during the month my baby was due i talk to baby more often.