I've been with my boyfriend just over a year (we've been friends since 7th grade), and we have a very loving relationship. He's a bit of a yes man, which means that he sometimes lets me boss him around a bit (I'm not trying to, I just assume he's okay with it when he says something is fine). His mom called me emotionally abusive for convicing him he agrees with things he doesn't actually. Am I really abusive?