Labor and delivery stress

Kim
I'm kind of torn on what to do when I go into labor. My husband and I have very different families. His family has no boundaries where as my family has a great respect for boundaries. I'm not sure who to tell if anyone when I go into labor. I already know it will be just my husband and myself in the delivery room. My husbands grandmother grandfather and aunt camped out at the hospital for 2 days harassing the staff while his sister was in labor and the calls and texts were non-stop from the entire family and I seriously don't think I can handle that sort of stress/pressure. If we don't tell his family it's not fair fair for me to tell mine which is upsetting me a little. It's the first baby in over 13 years in my family and everyone is over the moon. Any suggestions?