husband and i have been ttc for a 1 1/2year for baby #2. he is now in college and wants to stop trying till he is done, i don't want to put it on hold. Now he says im selfish and don't want him to succeed. what do you think?

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His course is only 10 months

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I don't understand how things can change so quickly. Everyone finds a way to move things around when a baby comes, why is this suddenly more important than what you two have been currently planning? I realize the importance of school, but you're not selfish. People don't need to put their lives on hold for a baby, vice versa.

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I honestly do not understand why TTC  has to be on hold because he is taking a ten month course... I have been TTC for over a year and I am just now in my last semester of my undergraduate degree and I am starting the process of going to law school. Even if you got pregnant right now, the baby would be due right around his course end date. I do think it should be a joint effort though because otherwise he will feel forced and resent the whole thing.

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Either way dont get pregnant unless he's ready...

husband and i have been ttc for a 1 1/2year for baby #2. he is now in college and wants to stop trying till he is done, i don't want to put it on hold. Now he says im selfish and don't want him to succeed. what do you think?

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