Absent grandparents.

My parents never visit my kids or me. They use the excuse that we live too far. (2hours away). But they also never call or see how I’m doing. They see my sister who lives an hour away from them all the time. They go to all of my nieces events big or small. Anyways I honestly I am okay with that because I love my nieces. But for my daughters first birthday they just texted happy birthday. And they freaking didn’t even call or text wishing my other daughter happy birthday for her third birthday. That just hurt. Not just me but the lack of relationship my daughter is having with her grandparents. I literally want to never speak to them again. Am I overreacting. This is not something out of the blue. They have always been like this but me speaking to them could only do so much. I just give up. And I feel hurt. I don’t want to feel hurt from them anymore and move on but it’s so hard.