Over protective Husband while pregnant?
Honestly I feel hurt by this. I’m not going to respond but he gets home in less than two hours. I opened the door(yes I know it was dumb) but I thought it was my energy provider. Turns out it was two scammers. I didn’t give them information which frustrated them. They were pushy and asked who my provider was and I said if you were actually real you would know. They he tried to guess. To which I replied everyone who lives in my city has the same provider which you would know. I don’t feel comfortable thank you have a great day. I even said that no one lived in the back. So they wouldn’t go there and across from my lives an older Russian couple and I told them they’re Russian and do not speak English well. They went over there anyway, which thankfully they didn’t fall for it. I checked in on them after the team had left the building. Anyway, they were scammers I looked up their “company” the badges where fake and it was honestly pushy. That being said I think I handled everything just fine. My husband on the other hand did not agree. I’m trying not to stress out because I’m pregnant, but I just want to cry and ignore him forever. I feel deeply mistreated and I hate it. And I just know I’ll be forced to argue when he gets home. Then he’ll shower, and I’ll have to make dinner.
Now before everyone says to leave, we’ve been together for a long time and friends since 15 and this is our first child. He works, I do not. I don’t want to leave him I love him but I know he doesn’t see this behavior as wrong. Any advice?
Updated: to respond to the comment below. No he doesn’t want me to have friends or a job I don’t even have family anymore. (They were abusive so I understand why) I don’t go out and no I do not go to the grocery store alone.
Another update: no there is nowhere I can go, I’m not lying when I say I have no family. I don’t want to leave him, I know he loves me and I understand everyone’s concern. I legitimately couldn’t leave even if I wanted to. All the bills are in my name, and the rent everything. I don’t have a car because mind broke down last month. I don’t have a job anymore so no money of my own. There’s nothing I can do. But like I said I don’t want to leave..


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