Let me say firstly I love my husband. I would never leave. I understand I'm a SAHM and my "job" is housework. Cleaning Is not my issue at all. I dont mind that I'm the only one that cleans. I dont mind that I take care of the baby almost completely by myself. What I do care about is that I cant just wash dishes or do laundry or vaccum. Instead i have to roam around my house picking up trash bottles and dishes in random places because my husband refuses to pick up after himself. Wherever he sets something that's where it stays. I feel like every single day I have to restart the entire cleaning process as if it never happened the day before. I want the house that is so clean you can eat off the floor yet I dont have time to mop because cleaning the entire house takes my entire day (when you break for the baby that's screaming her head off) and I have terrible back pain that makes the day drag. I just dont get why were two adults yet I'm checking everywhere for trash before I can ever begin to start actually vacuuming or making the bed or cleaning other areas. Like, why is it so difficult to put the trash in the trashcan or the dishes in the sink! I cant take a day off without my house looking like a frat house. I want to maintain a clean house. Usually people deep clean and the house stays clean for like a week maybe two. Ours stays clean for one or two DAYS!! I am just so over it I hate feeling dirty. I was sick for 3 days and crap was EVERYWHERE. I just, I want a clean house that lasts longer than the day I cleaned it