Need some advice.....

CD • Ella born 12-27-16 🌈
I figure the best people would be ones that have gotten pregnant!
we've been TTC for 4 months. I'm 26 years old and my hubby is 27. We really want to have a baby ASAP (just like everyone else right). 
Since the get go I've been obsessing over opk, temping, cm, etc. I think this next month I may say screw everything. And just try to BD every other day for that two week period; I generally can tell when I'll ovulate within a day or two
Did this work for anyone? I think maybe once I stop obsessing and stressing maybe it'll finally just happen.  Not to mention the extra money I spend monthly on all the clear blue ovulation tests. 
Please respond!!!! I really appreciate any advice.