Broken Heart?💔

Question

Have any of you ladies had your heartbroken? If so, how did you recover? I just broke up with my boyfriend of two years but I've been knowing him since we were kids...I don't know what to do I feel so alone because he wasn't just my lover he was my bestfriend!! He said he feels as if we should just be friends!? And he needs space??? It sucks because I really thought I meant so much more to him than a friend!? I feel unappreciated because I've always been there for him through whatever!! Even took him back after he cheated on me!! I don't know what to do because out of everything we've been through we have some great times together and that's what hurts the most...I'm kinda feeling like I should move on because he clearly doesn't care about me and I know I deserve waaaay better. It's just really hard for me to move on. Please help me!! How did you all get over an ex? I just want to be happy again!😢💔

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It took a year for me to get over my only heartbreak. I shifted all of my focus to school and bettering myself, and by doing that I just realized one day how I was so much better without him, and how he only drug me down. I thought it was literally never going to get better for so long. I cried almost every night for months, but now I just feel so silly lol. It will eventually get better I PROMISE

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Time. Just like everyone said. But honestly, get your GOOD gf's, and go out to have a good time. Anytime you feel down, go hang out with one of them. Stay busy and keep your mind occupied. However, my biggest and most important piece of advice, stop talking to him! It's so hard to, but cut him out of your life. Maybe one day you can be friends again, but after true heartbreak, you need to forget him for a bit. Talking to him only keeps those wounds open. Plus, he said he wants space. Well honey, show him what true space gets him! It'll be good for you, and you won't look sad and desperate by continuing to pine after him.

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I was with my ex 4 1/2 years...  it was not easy at all.. it'll take time I took time to see friends and family and have fun and try the whole being single it becomes fun and you kind a forget why you we're sad.. good luck it'll get better!! Smile!

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I have been there.. It took me 2 years to get over the pain and heartbreak.. I shifted all my focus towards my career.. Worked like a machine And never wanted to believe in a guy ever again.. Friends and family have been worried sick about me because of the way I was behaving.. Being busy all the time.. But honestly that was my way of moving on. And sure enough.. Met the true love of my life after 5 years.. I'm now happily married and that's when I realized why it never worked out with him. As you said, you know you deserve better! You'll be over this pain and you'll be stronger, more stronger than you ever knew you could be... You'd get your life! Take control over your happiness.. Good luck!!! Keep friends & family closer because you know they genuinely love you!

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The thing that worked for me was throwing all of my time and energy into bettering myself.  Working out,  reading,  eating right,  facials,  friends even when I didn't feel like going out.  Make yourself so busy you don't have time to be sad and before you know it,  you'll be so caught up in all of these new healthy habits and activities you will one day realize you are truly happy and at peace. And you'll have a fabulous body and gorgeous hair to go with it!

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Of course!! Who hasn't? The way I get over it is cleansing. Get rid of all their things (legally) lol take down pictures, block them on social media. Challenge yourself to NOT look them up online. Delete their phone number and all texts. Last time I changed his name in my contacts (he is my child's father so I need his number) his name was Asshole for a loooong  time now it's just Daughters Father, something simple but not specific. Every time i felt sad id think of something shitty he'd done so I can remember why I should be glad it's over. I'm more than over it 4 years later but it took me a good year to feel ok.

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Honestly? Time really is the only thing. I've been there. I thought i'd be broken forever. But time will heal. You have to also accept it and move on as well.

Broken Heart?💔

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