Vibrator fun & tips?

So, my boyfriend and I have been trying to resist having sex and practice abstinence for religious reasons. Neither of us is a saint though and we’re very much sexually attracted to each other. So I’ve been able to make him cum just fine, but even though everything he does feels incredible, I can’t orgasm. So he offered to go to a sex store, which we did, and got a vibrator to use on me and play with. It felt AMAZING.😂 Does anyone have tips though on how to help him to pleasure me without it though? I would like to not have to use the toy every time I want to orgasm.