Went to the hospital on wednesday to early pregnancy unit as had tiny spotting but lots of pain. Had a scan and i should have been 9w2d but baby was measuring at 8w with no heartbeat. We had a private scan at 7w6d and baby was fine with a heartbeat seen. They told me i had a subchronic hemorage which never heard of but they said this is quite normal and i will start spoting or not but not to worry. When we see the doctor after the scan she said this is called a threatened miscarriage and we should have been warned. Its now sunday and tomorrow i go back to hospital to get the meds to have a medical miscarriage. I am so scared of what is to come and i feel so lost and empty. I have a 14 month old to look after but finding it hard as just want to sit around and cry but i cant do that as she needs me :-(