He wants to know why im mad at him....

Like seriously why are men such idiots some times...? He sent me messages while i was cleaning about getting some belated birthday sex.... Ok, im all about it, its been a while, i shower up, shave my legs and wax and trim my lady bits... We go in the room and all he wants is head, he got mad cuz i was "taking my time" well i wasnt trying to get him off with head, i want some lovinf, which i told him...he told me to "get it" and that he will take of me then... I was hesitant cuz it happens all the time wherw i give him head and then i get nothing, literally NOTHING in return... Well when he finishes, he says ok im going downstairs to play music (hes a dj) for an hour and then ill come up and screw you... Well i stayed up for like 2 hours after and even messaged him, which all he said was go to bed it aint like i havent waken u up before.... Whelp here i am, getting ready for work pissed off... He stayed up all night, never came to bed, never initiated anything...and why am i pissed off?? Like seriously why do i even bother? And he wonders why we dont have sex more often... Cuz when i try to get some or try to iniate something i get blown off but when he wants he has to get or its all i hear about and he pouts about it.... Sorry not sorry but it gonna be no more for him till my needs are met for once