Do u judge big Families?

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Every time I’m at app or anywhere else ppl make these comments: 
“ your poor body”
“ I feel sorry for u “
“ did u get your tubes tied yet?”
“ I hope this is your last one!”
“ I get exhausted looking at you”
We have 7 kids 6 boys one girl and I feel blessed but these comments get to me sometimes

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Do I necessarily understand how some people afford it? Or mentally and physically keep up with it? No I don't. But do I judge someone with a big family. Nope! None of my business

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I don't judge them but I wonder about the logistics of it and sometimes I wonder if they considered the environmental impact of adding all those extra people to the world.

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No. I don't have time to be concerned about how big or small of a family others have. I don't get why people feel the need to comment like that.  🙄

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I just feel exhausted. My ex is one of 12 and it was always fun at their house, but there was never a point you could just exist quietly because there was always something going on.

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I don't judge, I mean it's not my family and not my business. Not like I have to pay for the school fees or clothes or anything so what does it matter.

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It's not my business.

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Wow, people can be so upfront about stuff that is really none of their business! I used to get told I was crazy or irresponsible when I would tell people I wanted 7-9 children. I think large families are great and those who can have and take care of them are so blessed!
A family at my church has 14 children (10 of them are still at home). Someone made a comment that their house must always be a mess. They said that it’s not. They have 3 scheduled times each day to clean and pick up toys/school items (they homeschool). I think that’s great! Big families definitely have to have more structure, but that teaches them responsibility.

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Don’t let it get to you. I only have 2 kids (so far) and people say things like this to me, just because they are close in age. 
If you are happy, and your kids are happy and well cared for, then that’s all that matters.

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As long as your kids are all feed, loved, clothed, and given any necessary medical care than I do not judge at all. I personally couldn't handle that many kids but I think moms who can are amazing. Big families are amazing. I'm the youngest of 7 and I love having 4 sisters that live close by. Most of us are really close and we help each other out when some one needs it and get together for holidays.

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I wouldn't judge the family, I would judge the person leaving the comments. I would be curious about the professions of the parents and support system but mostly because I'd be curious how they make it work.

Do u judge big Families?

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