Me lacking knowledge about this specific topic decided to come here for advice. Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex or I get fingered I always end up swollen and sore, and sometimes I bleed. I read online that the bleeding is really common with people, but It's kind of frustrating because I can never do anything for the next few days. Maybe it's just because I'm new to the whole "sex thing" but like is this something normal that I'm going to have to deal with or should I go have something checked out? Probably something I could just google but I'd rather have personal input :)