Have any of you gotten pregnant and your so didn’t want to have it?

Question

I’m currently finding myself in this situation and I feel so alone. I was just wondering if any of you can or have related, and what did you do, fire he come around? 
I’m fairly young, 20. He’s a little older than me, with a decent job..This would be our first.
I feel so lost, and just wanted any advice...no negativity please. I’m sure he is just scared, like I am...but not sure how to express it other than saying he doesn’t want it rn..

Answer

Don’t let him push you into something you’ll regret. He will come to terms eventually

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It’s going to be hard. Very hard. My boyfriend and I had recently started dating before I found out I was pregnant. We’d just come out of bad relationships and this relationship is something we both really wanted. I believe we were almost six months in before I got the big ole positive. He was the first person I told and I didn’t hear from him for hours after. I thought, “okay, this is it. It’s done.” It was the same day as my Nana’s funeral and he met up with me there and he couldn’t face it and ended up leaving. 
It was a very rocky start. 
For months he watched my pregnancy plague me. Not just emotionally but physically. Having HG, gallbladder surgery, and so much more complications he really did blame the baby for this destruction. We’ve had lots of discussions about it. I told him he could relinquish his rights if he didn’t want to be a father, that I wouldn’t hate him if that was his choice. But he didn’t want that and eventually ( and I’m talking months ) he accepted his responsibility. He calls her his daughter now, looks forward to seeing her being born, is actually protective of us both. He’d talk to her when he sees her move in my stomach. He’s definitely come around. 🙂 I know he’s still scared but that feeling of not wanting her around is gone. 
You just need to be patient and calm with him. He’s going through a major adjustment in his life just like you are. I’d sit down and have a conversation about it. Listen to him and his worries and doubts. 
Good luck. 🤞🏻

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Really sorry you’re going through this! I don’t really have any advice, but I hope that you have a strong support network around you, regardless of what decision you make!! ♥️

Have any of you gotten pregnant and your so didn’t want to have it?

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