This may seem a bit unsure, but my questions are in earnest. Back story: in school I was very studious and was never really interested in anyone. after graduation, I worked at a summer camp for the summer and was raped so trust does not come easily to me in relationships. I finally met someone I liked at 21 and lost my virginity just before turning 22. Fast forward and next month we have been married 7 years (I am now 31). That said, we have 2 kids (almost 3 and 9.5 month) and I filed for divorce in March. It took a lot to do so but the relationship was no longer healthy and had not been for a while. I do not need my kids thinking that verbal and psychological abuse is acceptable. Given that I have only ever had sex with him, and only how he wanted it (doggie style or missionary with one leg over his shoulder so he could feel like he was splitting me apart)... How do other people have sex? Positions and such? I honestly have not had the best experiences thus far and while I am not looking for a new relationship I am curious how people enjoy having sex so I know things to try if it ever comes up in the future.