How did you say to your husband or bf that you want a baby?

Im having a hard time to say it, and we dont have sex so often either but we dont use protection.

It seems like he dont want a baby but when i talked to him he says that we are trying..

yeah sure trying but not so fucking hard :(((

Im 28 and he is 30:(( i did have a misscarriage with my ex im so scared that im not going to have a baby:((

How im a going to start s discussion about this:(( im having my ovulation next week so my fertile period starts soon..

im like used opks sticks without his knowledge ?