So first of all I’m 24 weeks pregnant today. My boyfriend got a new car about 2 months ago because his previous car was 2 door and he said that wouldn’t have worked with the baby. We are not made out of money but he bought a super expensive sports car and his insurance is super high considering it is a sports car and he’s 21. He honestly can’t afford it, he thinks he can but he spends way to much on it. Lately all he cares about is his car, he has lowered the car so low that if he goes over the smallest bump the whole bottom rubs to the ground. He wants to buy new wheels for it (the car is new so the wheels on it or new) we fought the other day because he wanted to buy a paddle shifter for his car, I said he didn’t need it and he should save that money for his son! And about a week ago he spent $250 dollars on window tint which I got over it. Since he’s gotten the tint he has been complaining that his eyes hurt... strange because they never bothered him before. So whatever he had an eye doctor appointment today and told him that his eyes were sensitive to light. So whatever he said they didn’t give him anything and I told him an easy fix is sunglasses and was trying to go on with the day.

He gets home and keeps asking me for an envelope after I told him multiple times I didn’t have the kind he was asking for. Finally I asked why do you need an envelope right now?! He says he has a paper from the eye doctor that he has to send somewhere... he wouldn’t give me details so I asked to see the paper. He was hesitant but he gave it to me. He basically got a paper from the doctor saying that his front tint is okay because he has light sensitivity.... and I asked “why do you need a paper for tint when you already have tint?” And he replied “well this makes it legal.”

Ok so that’s where shit got out of hand... he lied to me and said that this tint was legal before he got it. So basically not only did he lie to me, he also lied to the doctor just to have an excuse for his tint in his car to be legal.

This and so much other things have been going on and I don’t know what to do anymore.. he can buy all this but he gets pissed if I ask him to buy something for our son and he says he’s “saving money” I feel like this child is not his first priority, his car is.... I’ve tried talking to him about it but he’s like talking to a brick wall.. I just need advise, I don’t know if I’m overreacting and if these hormones are getting to me or if I should leave him now before it gets worst... please any advise would be appreciated