Am I wrong?

Ja

Ja

So for the past few months I’ve been taking and picking up my sister from work because her car got stolen because she kept the ignition running . There’s plenty of moments where she could have saved to get her a new car but instead she went on a trip to Cali. I feel she is very irresponsible with her money and I’m fed up with lugging her to work. She doesn’t give me any gas money and I’m done being a taxi. Is it wrong if I refuse to take her to work? I even have to drop my little brother off sometimes and watch him because my mom works and I do as well. I feel like everyone problems are falling off on me and I’m done with it.

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Ha

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Don’t just up and stop, tell her you’re going to and give her a bit of time to find a new ride.

Da

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Just start saying that you are busy. Your sister will be fine and can call an Uber or Lyft. 🤷🏻‍♀️I know how it feels to always give yourself to people and no one can give you anything in return. You feel so unappreciated & I’m sorry!

Ca

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You have the right to stop being a personal chauffeur any time you like. It might be helpful to your sister to give her a two-week heads up, so she has time to figure out other plans. Once you set a deadline for when the free car rides stop, you have to stick with it, no matter how much she begs or pleads otherwise.

Gi

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I don’t think you not wanting to be a taxi is wrong. Your sister is an adult, she should deal with her own problems. You helped her out and now it’s time for her to make good choices!

Al

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I would tell her you’re done, and give her a week to find someone else to drive her or take the bus. Other people aren’t your responsibility, and they only can be if you allow it.

Ja

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Thank you guys❤️ me and my mom have been letting her know that we’re fed up with taking her to work my mom even offered to buy her a little cheap car and she refused and made it seem like it was to good for her. And it’s been about 4 months she could have easily saved $2000 to get her car but no she literally has no savings😭 it’s so ridiculous... I’m the little sister but she acts more like it then me😂