Mother in-law not happy I’m pregnant

So me and my mother in-law have never had a good relationship. She just absolutely don’t like me and it pisses me off because I’ve done alot for her! Including raising her kids for 4yrs when her dumbass lost custody of them. But she swears I don’t treat her son right she hates the way I talk to him. She has alot of animals so I do not let my kids go over because her animals don’t have there shots and they are very wild and I refuse to let one bite my kids. So we honestly have not been to her house in about a year. I told her if she got rid of her animals or put them outside while we visit we’d go over a lot more but she refuses

We Announced we have another baby on the way and she seems very pissed off about it. She don’t ask questions like when’s your due date . When’s your appointment. How are you feeling. Blah blah. My friend cares more then she does. My spouse doesn’t get in the middle of us he just stays quiet or ignores it. We just recently had a birthday for the kids and she was giving me ugly looks the whole time! She’d look at my belly and like be disgusted. We don’t get government help we don’t ask her for money so I could understand if she would be mad we couldn’t afford another baby but that’s not the case. She just had this disgusting attitude with me and I honestly don’t even wanna give her updates about this baby cause she don’t even seem to care

How do I not have this feeling towards her but I can’t help it

I’ve tried reaching out and she just ignores me but I know it’s starting to bug my husband expecially around holidays because we don’t associate with her