So my husband and I just started working together at a job for the first time. Big mistake. I don’t even know where to begin well first off me and my husband we’re having a discussion/argument about changing our shifts and I told him idk because this guy who I don’t like will be on that shift his so called friend that he thinks is his friend barely knows the guy but I know for sure he is not a good person to be around. The dude makes me feel uncomfortable and always putting ideas into my husbands head.

Anyways, as we were arguing about this I kept telling him this is not the place and he told me to shut the fuck Up multiple times in front of our co-workers then while we was down the aisle he grab my head and pushed me super hard where I almost fell but I had caught my balance. Instead I would of fell and hit some concrete as we work in a warehouse. When it happened I was in shock like how dare you put your hands on me at work.

He has in the past gotten Violent at home with me but I stayed because I love my husband and didn’t want to seem like I was a failure. So a week or so went by we still been having issues at work about him flirting with females and Other things. Well tonight was the last straw for me. I was sick and tired of him embarrassing, humiliating me/us at work then I caught him talking shit behind my back and tell personal things about our marriage to his so called friend and co works saying all bad things about me he wants to leave me and all types of stuff that he had no right telling anyone. We have cameras at work so I went to HR and told them that he pushed me and got abusive at work. They made him leave work and I warned him if he kept his shit up I would get his ass fired for putting his hands on me at work. He thought I was Bluffing I was not.

I kinda feel like I’m the bad person here and questioning myself if I did the right thing. I never wanted it to end like this but I feel like he brought it on upon his self. I’m so upset and was crying at work due to all this. I feel like I made the right Decision. I don’t know what to do now. I feel so a shamed and heart broken that my own husband would do these things to me and betrayed me. What do you all think? I need advice prayers something. He left work and I haven’t seen him since. I came home from work and he is not here. Idk guys this is so hard for me I have no family or friends that live close by.