My daughter is 14 months old (I had to have an episiotomy so that's what the brown spots and scar underneath are from) and I have struggled to get rid of yeast infections a d UTIs ever since. Recently I looked at my vagina and it almost appears... shredded? Is it normal? I am in a strictly monogamous relationship, have been tested for stds, and the only guy I have ever been with is my boyfriend of 3 years. I am not sure if this is common or not. Could it be because I masturbate a lot?