I want to divorce my husband. We are in a long distance relationship/marriage because I’m in the military and he became emotionally/mentally dependent and unstable. It just got very unhealthy for us. He’s 28 and he wanted me to focus more on us than work. I disagreed with this because I felt like I was already giving it my everything. He was very emotionally needy, getting mad that I won’t text him I love you at night or curse and scream at me because I had training at 4am the day after so I couldn’t talk on the phone. He would leave 10 miscalls in 1 minute even though he knows I’m at work and I can’t have my phone, leave endless amounts of messages telling me how I can improve to save our relationship. Whenever we get in a fight or I say I want to take a break, he tells me he wishes he was dead so I can’t even flat out tell him I want a divorce. Also I’m the breadwinner and between my younger brothers college fund, my parents not having a stable job, and a husband in debt who can’t save money, I was exhausted being the rock for everyone. These might seem like petty reasons to leave your husband, I don’t know. All I know is I’ve had enough. He wants me to live together and have a baby now but I want to build my career right now, I’m only 21.

There’s no point to this post really, I just needed a place to rant:(