I feel so bad, my boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, and he told me the other day that he feels like I don’t desire him sexually because I don’t initiate sex. Which, I am really bad about it. I was sexually abused in a previous relationship and so initiating was never something I got comfortable with. He is the most wonderful man and I don’t ever want him to feel that way. But I feel like I don’t know how to initiate. Any tips? Him and I are both really kinky.