So I have been with my

O/H for over ten years the last year has been really difficult I've been struggling with my health constant daily headaches and tiredness needless to say my sex drive has been MIA.

So I am a really light sleep the slightest movement or sound and I am awake the last couple of months I've been woken up to find him watching porn on his phone and pleasuring himself If he hears me move he stops straight away. I dont know if he likes the thrill of being caught aswell or what?

So I dont know if to just leave it or to speak to him about it, I have woken up again this morning to him doing it 6am it's like hello I would like to sleep thanks for waking me up.