I met this guy (we’re both 21) through tinder after a moment of weakness (I didn’t want to get back on it), and we went out for 5 days while he was here visiting home. He’s in the military stationed far far away in Hawaii.

He said he liked me and would date me if he wasn’t so far, but we both agreed that we didn’t like long distance. We did have sex a couple times, and I found out that he has a 10-15 girl body count. He says he still keeps in touch with them (which is how he tried making me feel better to have sex with him), whereas I had a whopping body count of 2 😂

I’ve been the one making all the effort in texting and making sure he’s good and all he does is Snapchat me to

leave me on read and not even have a decent conversation with me.

I refuse to be one of his little tinder / Snapchat girls out of the many that he probably already has, but I do like him a lot and miss him.

I don’t want to lose touch, especially since he’s coming back in May, or for him to think I don’t like him anymore.

So what do I do? Besides telling him how I feel? Cause I want him to miss me and I’ve tried standing out, but I’m just stuck.