Is it me?

My fiance and I have been engaged for a year now. We love each other and everything, but for the past few months it's been rather exhausting.

It's like I need to be a mom to him all the time - tell him what to do and what not to do. I get that being communicative is necessary in a relationship but is it too much to ask that he be more understanding sometimes? Is it too much to expect that he be there for me sometimes without me having to specifically ask him to be there?

I've been so uneasy the past months just thinking about our future as a couple and he just doesn't seem to be bothered by it.

Is there something wrong with me or is it the relationship?

Please folks, give me some advice.