Husband is not affectionate and rather want to watch porn or read online sex stories

Hi everyone. I just wanna know some of your opinions about what can i do if my husband is not affectionate and everytime he feels horny, he will just watch porns or sex stories. 😔😢 im a women looking for his attention. By the way, we are not having sex for 3 days already since he said NO and i just loose interest by then.. i am sad and lonely specially we are also trying to conceive. We are married for morethan a year now.. please help 😢😢