My best friend and I tell each other everything we tried getting pregnant with our first around the same time so they would be close in age. Our 1 1/2 year olds are a month apart. She has always struggled with mental health problems that have Gotten much worse after the birth of her first baby. She told me last week she found out her sisters-in-law is pregnant again with number 2 and now she feels pressure to have another. They are still working to get her mental health meds figured out, she cant leave the house because of anxiety, and her marriage is very rocky people keep telling her husband to leave her. Well I found out I’m pregnant with number 2 yesterday and it’s something I would usually tell her right away, but with everything going on in her life I don’t want to tell her. However I feel like if I don’t she will be pissed at me.