Warning. Here comes a vent. My mother in law is a character to say the least. Same sex couple and I will be one carrying our children. We've been ttc since December and it hasn't worked yet. At first we kept it a secret from everyone besides our boss and few co workers. Well when it finally wasn't taking we came clean. First concern of hers is well you've only just stated trying, second was money. Since she couldn't get her way and see her grandchild from my brother in law. She decides to tell us that she's praying for us and really wants a grandchild she can see without being told no and not to let her down. I'm flabbergasted at her selfishness and by her "dont let me down". Don't you think I've told myself that? Don't you think I've felt like i let my wife down every time it was a negative pregnancy test.