Why won't my fiancé have sex with me?HELP!!

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Him and I have been together for 8 months now. When we first started dating we would have sex all the time, he stopped wanting sex as much a couple of months ago. I know is isn't cheating because I am with him 24/7. We even work together every day. I confronted him about it and he says that it's hard to get in the mood when I'm always yelling at him. We argue about stupid things but I'm not always yelling at him.

Every time I try to start doing things he pushes me off of him and comes up with an excuse as to why we can't have sex at that time.

It makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore and every time I bring it up he says that he always wants to have sex with me, but he never tries to.. Idk what to do..

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Only 8 months?! Shit.. You moved to fast.. You hardly even forumed a steady relationship..

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It sounds like you two need to have some alone time, every now and then. You live together, work together, and sleep together. That is a lot of time together. You both need down time to hangout with friends or do something alone. He still loves you, but it sounds like he needs his space.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together a little over 2 years now and of course we don't have sex as much, but we do still have Sex a few times a week. The past month or 2  I've been really stressed and when I'm stressed I tend to take it out on everyone else including him. I couldn't understand why our sex life changed because of it, so we sat down and talked about it. He said "when you're in a good mood, I'm in a good mood. And she you're in a bad mood everyone else has to be in one too." It really made me think!!! He's right. And because we were fighting over stupid stuff, it just really turned him off. We are back to normal after out talk. I guess what I'm trying to say is, fighting is never really fun and just hurts both in the end. It effects every part of the relationship, even your sex life. Sit down and talk! Always try to be in a great mood and think of how lucky you are to have someone like him. Maybe he's going thru the same thing my bf went thru and he just gets out of the mood when there's negativity 
Hope everything gets better 😘

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Every relationship has its ups and downs but this isn't healthy. Sounds like you two need separate lives; it's healthy for any relationship. Sex is also an important part of a healthy relationship and if you two aren't having it then obviously there's a problem there. Goodluck.

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Back off. I know that sounds harsh but if u start distancing urself from him(not much) like don't be all over him all the time he will start coming to u! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 years and i always wanted it and he got tired of it because he didn't have to work for it! Make him chase just don't do it so much that he thinks something is up!

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You have to be a relief to him not a stress try not to get on him so he can relax

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I think you need to give your relationship more time to see if you are compatible. He seems controlling and maybe he just has a low sex drive.  Are you sure that is what you want for the rest of your life? 😕

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Maybe you need to spend time apart so you are more special to him. Also do you really think you know him enough to marry him and try to conceive after only 8 months?

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Are you all getting married soon? If so, it could be nerves. Men react in weird ways when they're nervous or feel inadequate. They have a hard time expressing themselves unlike us as women, we tend to be able to just talk about our feelings.

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Try getting your old life back and by that I mean start going out all the time with your girlfriends again. Make dinner plans go shopping etc so you barely have a free minute. Don't call or text him unless he calls or texts you first. Don't send I miss you's or i love you's unless he does. Sounds childish, but i was given that advice and it really worked. He found interest in me again and started to call and text me all the time. The problem was we got involved so quickly and like you had sex all the time so the whole thing started to fizzle just as quickly as it started because suddenly I had all the time in the world for him  he got bored so I was given that advice and I took it and as soon as I got busy again guess who wanted more of me again?  Guys like the chase. If your just his all the time he will get bored and push you away. But when someone else wants what he has. . . Be it your friends or someone else.  . He will suddenly want your time again. Give it a go. I bet it works.

Why won't my fiancé have sex with me?HELP!!

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