Okay, so my friend has a baby and said to me she would only bring her daughter round in the outside of my property due to me smoking in the house which i only smoke in one room only and is well ventilated with windows open and also was told to not hold baby within the first hour of smoking, ladies i totally get about smoking near a baby of which i would never do and yeah respect her wishes but when my neice was born 3years ago, my friend smoked where i smoked and obviously handled her when she was a tiny baby i just think it's a little bit double standard, what you think girls? TIA