I’ve had this since my first was born two years ago, it has taken a huge role on my life , ruined many things and I never wanted to get help because I thought they would look at me badly I guess I was just ashamed. But I am 20 weeks with my new baby girl and things are bad, almost too the point of losing everything, I feel terrible. Has anyone gotten medication for depression while pregnant and did it help?? Do I talk to my obgyn about it? Thank you in advance !