Ever since I got pregnant 4 years ago I have never had a day to myself I can’t even go to the bathroom without my kids going with me if your mom you know what I’m talking about my boyfriend goes out anytime he wants with his friends and I just stay home with my daughter. Over the past years and I never really thought about going out until my cousins mentioned a girls night and I liked the idea since I’ve never had one .

next week we’re going to Mexico and it’s going to be seven days straight of parties in the fields, (girls night is only 1 day btw) my three girl cousins haven’t been to Mexico in a couple years and are going with me we made plans of how we were going to hang out and dance and have a good time but I cant do that with daughter with me, I was talking with my boyfriend about me wanting to have a girls night for the first time if it was OK for me to leave for daughter with his mom who lives over there and he said no because if I want to have a girls night then I have to take her with me.

I got pregnant really young I was a sophomore in high school and never got the chance to go out either. It made me sad how he said NO. But yet he can do it. My cousins are 15-16 and I’m 20

Is it wrong that I just want 1 night to myself?How can I tell him so he’ll understand? 😞Am I a bad mother for thinking like this ?